Signs of Abuse

You may becoming or already be abused if you:

Feel like you have to "walk on eggshells" to keep your partner from getting mad at you and are frightened by his temper.

Are dependent on your partner and feel as if you cannot live without him or her.

Stop seeing other friends or family

Give up activities you enjoy because your partner doesn't like them or tells you to.

Are afraid to tell  your partner your worries, fears, or general feelings about the relationship.

Are submissive and compliant to your partner because you are afraid to hurt his/her feelings.

Have the urge to "rescue" him/her when he/she is in trouble or having problems.

Feel like you are the only one who can save your partner and therefore you must do so.

Often find yourself apologizing to yourself or others for your partner's behavior.

Silence yourself, stop expressing opinions if your partner doesn't agree with them.

Stay because you are frightened that will kill him/herself if you leave.

Believe that your partner's jealousy is a sign of love.

Believe the insulting things your partner says to you.

Believe that by accepting the abuse you are thereby saving the marriage.